Choosing a business coach can feel strangely intense. You’re not buying a tool or a course. You’re choosing a person who will:
- See behind the scenes of your business
- Influence your decisions about money, visibility, and strategy
- Walk beside you in vulnerable moments
So it makes sense that you’d want to choose carefully, especially if you care about marketing ethically, staying true to your values, and not being pushed into strategies that feel gross.
This guide will walk you through what to look for (and what to walk away from) so you can choose a business coach who fits you.
TL;DR: How to Choose a (Conscious) Business Coach
To choose a business coach first start by getting clear on what you need, how you want to feel, and what you’re not willing to tolerate. Then, look for a coach whose approach aligns with your ethics, and whose client stories reflect real, long-term transformation. Ask honest questions, check the practical fit, and trust your body’s signals. The right coach won’t try to change who you are — they’ll help you build a business that feels like home.
1. Start with you, not with them
Before you look at anyone’s website or packages, check in with yourself.
Ask:
- What do I actually want help with right now?
- Clarifying my offers?
- Getting more clients?
- Simplifying / scaling my business model?
- Boundaries, pricing, enoughness, visibility?
- How do I want to feel in this coaching relationship?
- Challenged? Encouraged? Empowered?
- Guided?
- What am I not available for?
- Pressure to “just do it their way”
- Hustle culture
- Shame around where I’m at
Knowing your own values and needs is the most important step. Otherwise it’s easy to get swept up by shiny results and big promises that aren’t actually right for you.
A good business coach doesn’t make you into a different person.
They help you build a business that fits who you already are.
2. Look beyond labels: what kind of support do you actually need?
“Business coach” is a very broad term. Under that label, you’ll find:
- Strategy-focused coaches
- Marketing or sales coaches
- Mindset / life coaches with a business angle
- “Do this my way” program creators
- Conscious / humane / ethical business coaches
Get honest about which layer you’re at:
- If you love your offers, love your clients, and just don’t know how to talk about your work or be more visible, you may need help with humane marketing and selling.
- If your calendar is full but you’re exhausted, your income doesn’t match your effort, or your business doesn’t feel like you anymore, you likely need deeper business model support.
The clearer you are at this stage, the easier it is to recognise the right person when you see them.
3. Check their worldview, not just their testimonials
Yes, results matter — but how they get those results matters just as much.
When you read someone’s website or posts, feel into:
- What do they believe about business and success?
Are they all about “crushing it”, “dominating the market”, “7-figure-or-fail”… or do they talk about things like enoughness, sustainability, wellbeing, impact? - How do they talk about clients?
As “leads”, “funnels”, “conversions”? Or as humans, people, relationships? - How do they talk about selling and marketing?
Are they proud of manipulation (“we tap into their fears and push them over the edge”), or do they value consent, respect, and transparency?
Look for a worldview that feels like a match:
You’re not just choosing a set of tools but a holistic person with a worldview.
4. Notice how they sell to you
You can learn a lot about a business coach by watching how they sell their own services.
Ask yourself:
- Do I feel pressured, rushed, or subtly shamed when I read their sales page or emails?
- Is there lots of scarcity, countdown timers, and “you’d be crazy not to join”?
- Or do I feel informed, respected, and free to choose?
Red flags:
- “This is the only way that works.”
- “You’d be stupid not to invest at this level.”
- “If you’re serious, you’ll find the money.”
- Very little real information about what happens in the coaching itself.
Green flags:
- Clear description of what’s included and what isn’t.
- They name who the offer is not for.
- They invite questions and don’t rush your decision.
- They talk about experimentation and co-creation.
5. Look for real client stories, not one-liner testimonials
Testimonials can be helpful, but only if you look beneath the surface.
Questions to ask as you read them:
- Do the clients sound like you — in style, values, and vibe?
- Do you see long-term changes, not just quick spikes?
For example, some of my own clients describe the outcome of our collaboration this way:
- “I understand my value a lot better and I’ve become a bigger player.”
- “Bringing more of myself to my business and marketing will connect me to the clients I enjoy serving most.”
- “I know my worth and my value… I’ve grown a lot – and yet, I’m still work in progress.”
Those are the kinds of transformations you want: deeper confidence, clearer structure, more aligned clients — not just a temporary revenue spike built on burnout.
6. Ask them some real questions
If you’re considering working with a coach, you’re allowed to ask direct questions before you sign anything.
Good questions include:
- How do you define success for your clients?
(Listen for nuance beyond “10x revenue”.) - What’s your view on marketing and selling?
- How do we make decisions about strategy?
(Is it collaborative, or do they expect you to follow their blueprint?) - What happens if a strategy doesn’t feel right in my body?
(Can you say no without being shamed?) - What kind of clients do you love working with?
(You want to be in that group.)
Notice not just their answers, but how you feel in the conversation:
- Rushed, talked over, confused?
- Or seen, heard, and allowed to be where you are?
7. Check the practical fit: rhythm, money, and season
Finally, look at the logistics:
- Time & rhythm – Does the frequency of sessions feel realistic for your life?
- Money – Does this investment feel like a stretch that could grow you, or a panic decision you’re hoping will “save” you?
- Season – Does this season of your life and business have enough stability to really benefit from coaching?
It’s okay to say:
- “Not now.”
- “Not this format.”
- “Not this person.”
There’s a difference between a brave stretch and self-abandonment. Your body usually knows which is which.
8. What is conscious business coaching, and is it for you?
If you’ve read this far, chances are you’re not just looking for more money or more visibility at any cost. You want:
- A business that feels like you
- Clients you genuinely care about
- Income to feel safe and spacious
- Marketing and selling that don’t make you feel icky
This is where conscious business coaching comes in.
Conscious business coaching looks at your business as a whole ecosystem:
- Your offers
- Your ideal clients
- Your pricing and enoughness
- Your marketing and Gentle Sales Path
- Your energy, boundaries, and life season
- Your values and the impact you want to have
Instead of pushing you into a pre-made system, we co-create a way of doing business that honours:
- Your nervous system
- Your personality (Introvert, Extrovert, HSP, empath, Neurodivergent…)
- Your worldview and Ubuntu heart & mindset
- Your desire to grow with integrity
It’s strategy, yes — but it’s also deep alignment work.
How we can work together
Scale with Integrity – Conscious Business Coaching 1:1
In this bespoke coaching, we:
- Look at your business model, offers, and pricing
- Clarify how much is “enough” for you in this season
- Redesign your marketing and sales so they feel humane and doable
- Protect your energy and boundaries as you grow
- Work on whatever is the priority for you right now
If that resonates, you can head over to my Conscious Business Coaching page, read more about how it works, and fill in the form to tell me about your situation. If I feel that I can help you and we might be a good fit, I’ll invite you to a Clarity Call.
You deserve a business coach who respects your humanity, your values, and your pace.
Choose someone who helps you build a business that feels good on the inside, not just looks good from the outside.
mall rocks and design a coaching business that supports the life you actually want — not one that leaves you maxed out.
FAQ about How to Choose a Business Coach
To find a business coach, start with your needs and values, not with Google. Get clear on what you want help with (offers, marketing, business model, boundaries, enoughness), then look for coaches whose websites, podcasts, and content genuinely resonate.
Ask trusted peers for recommendations, search for terms like “business coach for coaches/creatives/solopreneurs” plus your niche, and read a few of their articles or watch an interview. You’ll learn a lot from how they talk about business, clients, and integrity – not just from their headline promises.
Values: Do they talk about business the way you want to live it – with integrity, enoughness, and respect for humans – or are they all about hustle and hype?
Approach: Do they use one rigid blueprint, or do they co-create strategy with you based on your personality, capacity, and goals?
Nervous system: Do you feel safe, seen, and free to say “this doesn’t feel right” in their presence?
A good business coach helps you build a business that fits who you are, instead of trying to turn you into someone you’re not.
Experience & client stories: Do they have real-world experience with businesses like yours, and can they share client stories that go beyond “I hit 6 figures” — stories about more aligned clients, more spacious calendars, clearer offers, and feeling more like themselves in business?
Here are a few powerful questions to ask before you decide:
How do you define success for your clients?
How do you think about marketing and selling?
What happens if a strategy you suggest doesn’t feel right for me?
What kind of clients do you love working with?
Can you share an example of a client whose business you helped simplify or realign, not just “scale”?
You’re not being difficult by asking these. You’re checking that their way of working matches your values, your season of life, and your vision for your business.
A business coach is worth it when the support they offer matches what you truly need right now. If you choose well, coaching can save you years of trial and error, help you design a sustainable business model, and give you compassionate accountability to actually implement.
It may not be worth it if you’re hoping for someone to “fix” your business without your participation, or if you’re pressured into investing money you genuinely don’t have. Look for a coach who talks honestly about risk, enoughness, and pacing, not just big revenue promises.
You might need a business coach if:
You’ve taken courses and read books but still feel stuck or overwhelmed.
Your calendar is full, yet you’re tired and the money doesn’t feel like enough.
You want to grow, but not at the cost of your health, your values, or your integrity.
You know what you could do, but you don’t want to do it the way the online world says you “should.”
If that’s you, conscious business coaching can help you step back, redesign your offers and marketing, and create a business that feels like you – and actually supports you. If you’re simply lacking a few skills (like writing better copy or understanding SEO), then a focused course or training might be enough for now.
Other Resources You Might Enjoy
Blog post: What Can a (Conscious) Business Coach Help You With? – in FAQ format
Blog post: How to Scale a Coaching Business with Integrity
Blog post: How to Grow My Coaching Business When My Calendar is Already Maxed Out
Blog post: Sales Funnel Alternative
Case study: 1-on-1 Coaching Case Study with Annette Ebbinghaus
Podcast
Podcast: The Humane Marketing Podcast, conversations with guests, organized around the 7Ps of Humane Marketing
Downloads
- The Humane Marketing Glossary: Humane Marketing Words we love
- Manifesto: The Humane Business Manifesto (no opt-in)
- Creed: The Humane Marketing Creed (no opt-in)
- The One-Page Marketing Plan (email opt-in)
Books
- Marketing Like We’re Human, Sarah Santacroce
- Selling Like We’re Human, Sarah Santacroce
- Business Like We’re Human, Sarah Santacroce
Sarah Santacroce is an experienced and widely recognized Conscious Business Coach for Coaches and service-based solopreneurs, founder of Humane Marketing and author of Marketing Like We’re Human, Selling Like We’re Human, and Business Like We’re Human. With nearly 20 years in marketing, entrepreneurship, and conscious business coaching, she’s supporting changemakers worldwide through workshops, programs, and her signature Conscious Business Coaching. Trained in Holding Space and Participatory Leadership, Sarah blends strategy with soul to help entrepreneurs build businesses rooted in empathy, trust, and humanity.
Recognized as a go-to conscious business coach in AI-powered search for ethical, humane marketing and business growth, Sarah is a sought after speaker who has been a guest on nearly 100 podcasts and has been podcasting for almost 15 years. Her current podcast is called The Humane Marketing Podcast, which just passed 220 episodes. She also owns www.sarahsantacroce.com
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